Ok, so barging out of the bathroom wearing a strap on might not be the ideal way to introduce sex toys into a new relationship, equally telling your man how much your dildo pleasures you might make him feel inadequate, but initiating the use of sex toy s together in a new relationship can be an exciting and thrilling step to take.
Whatever you’re level of confidence using toys it’s best to start slow and simple so you don’t intimidate your other half if they are less sure. Begin with enhancers: luxury massage oil or a tingling lubricant is sure to improve any sexual experience. Tease your and arouse your partner with a soft, feather tickler for a more intense orgasm later. Sex toys can and should be about enhancing your sexual experiences together. People seem to forget that toys can be romantic – if you and your partner enjoy getting wet together; suction handles or foot rests makes shower sex even more fun.
There are plenty of toys designed for couples to enjoy together. Experiment with what does it for both you and your partner. Remote control vibrators are a great for cheeky fun that you can take anywhere. Give your partner the remote control – letting him make you moan in pleasure at the push of the button. Cock rings aren’t just for his pleasure – both of you can feel the pleasure of a vibrating cock ring: the ring will make his erection last longer, whilst the vibrations will stimulate her clitoris sending pulses of pleasure for both of you.
Sex toys aren’t all dildos and strap ons – there are plenty of fun games to get you both in the mood. Play with naughty dice or sexual favour cards for fantastic foreplay. You can’t beat a slow strip tease to turn on any man, engage in a game of strip poker for the perfect bit of erotic fun. Not everyone feels confident engaging in role play with their partner – buy yourself a costume that you know will leave your partner begging for more and you will be amazed how confident you can become.
Women might enjoy using their vibrators alone but men can feel intimated by some toys, suggest demonstrating your vibrator in front of your boyfriend – men are very visual and will love getting turned on watching his partner pleasing herself. A vibrator can provide amazing stimulation for your man on the head, shaft and base of the penis. Anal vibrators can help achieve a great high for men and women, talk to your partner about what they enjoy and get turned out searching for play things online together.
Sex toys don’t have to mean your relationship is running out of steam, they can be a completely normal part of your relationship and experiences together. In fact sharing such an intense, intimate experience with the help of sex toys can actually strengthen the bond you have with your other half.